Convincing Girlfriend

[kyle88]

Hi everyone,
Has anyone ever had any luck convincing your significant others into wearing wind pants or sportswear in general more often? My girlfriend obviously can tell I enjoy wearing my windbreaker pants and adidas soccer pants. However I wish I could get her to wear them too! Any thoughts or ideas?? I have tried buying her some but it’s rare she wears them.

 

[shiny3stripes]

You need to build it to an activity - suggest going to the gym or doing a sport together and buy her a tracksuit (this is what i did), you could always surprise her to a last minute trip away and pack some sportswear so she will almost have to wear it, ...... worst case just tell her you find it a turn on and ask her to wear it more

 

[kyle88]

You need to build it to an activity - suggest going to the gym or doing a sport together and buy her a tracksuit (this is what i did), you could always surprise her to a last minute trip away and pack some sportswear so she will almost have to wear it, ...... worst case just tell her you find it a turn on and ask her to wear it more

I like the idea of packing a last minute trip for her

 

[Adidaspantsisback]

I told my girlfriend I have an unusual kink but wouldn’t talk about it. I dragged it out for a couple weeks. I then told her about my collection and how I enjoy them. She then asked me to show her. So I did. Then told her that I wanted her to wear a pair of pants. Her goal is to make me happy so she did it and loved it! She loves feeling my warm hands and breath gliding over the nylon.

 

[GMUS27]

Just tell her. That's what I did for my most recent girlfriend. She hasn't worn them yet--we live in Missouri, and it's still pretty warm here--but she will. She didn't judge me or anything.

 

[Miss Betsy]

If she ever brings up how you enjoy wearing them, just be honest and tell her why. Maybe say something like “This is gonna sound kinda silly but….” And take it from there. In the grand scheme of things, this is a pretty harmless fetish so I doubt there’d be any strong pushback

 

[Treeman945]

Ya better to be direct than to try to slip it, I haven't dated in a while but my last girlfriend I told and she was happy to wear them for me. She had some questions which I answered, they were mostly just why but sometimes is hard to explain why you are into something like this.

 

[Adidasboy81]

I have told last 4 of my womens ( 2 wifes and 2 girlfriends) about this my fetish and i have had from all of them ok opinion on it. And all of them had wear shiny windpants and pleasure me on these pants on. I have had wonderful sex from last 20 years because i have told them about this. So, be honest and told what u are in to, only then you can have all you want. And if you girl judges you, she won't be worth of it👍 It's so simble.
And sorry if my english is bad but i hope you all get the point😅

 

[Harry610]

Hi everyone,
Has anyone ever had any luck convincing your significant others into wearing wind pants or sportswear in general more often? My girlfriend obviously can tell I enjoy wearing my windbreaker pants and adidas soccer pants. However I wish I could get her to wear them too! Any thoughts or ideas?? I have tried buying her some but it’s rare she wears them.

Sometimes convincing your partner to wear sporty clothes can be tough. Maybe try showing her how comfortable they are, like during a workout or a walk together. You could also suggest outfits that match her style.

Highlight how good she looks in sportswear; that might win her over. The key is patience and making it fun – let it be a pleasant experience for her!

 

[Harry610]

Hi everyone,
Has anyone ever had any luck convincing your significant others into wearing wind pants or sportswear in general more often? My girlfriend obviously can tell I enjoy wearing my windbreaker pants and adidas soccer pants. However I wish I could get her to wear them too! Any thoughts or ideas?? I have tried buying her some but it’s rare she wears them.

Sometimes convincing your partner to wear sporty clothes can be tough. Maybe try showing her how comfortable they are, like during a workout or a walk together. You could also suggest outfits that match her style.

Highlight how good she looks in sportswear; that might win her over. The key is patience and making it fun – let it be a pleasant experience for her!

 

[Theo_Vilmos]

Hey, so, for some reason as a society we've learned to shy away from having conversations like this with eachother in relationships.

I know it's easier said than done but, you're in a relationship with this person and one of the benefits of having relationships is sex.

Your fetish for sportswear is totally normal. It might not be mainstream but that doesn't make it weird.

Be honest. Be prepared to feel a little embarrassed, but just be open and honest and say hey, this is my fetish. I'd love if it you indulged me.

 

[eyeste]

Hey, I agree with the comments above. In my experience trying to get your partner to wear something without fully explaining to them what's going on probably won't get the result you want. If you have a solid and trusting relationship with your partner, it's best just to be honest about your kink. I told my current partner about my kink for trackies and sportswear and she was great about it, she didn't judge me at all and was really interested to find out what I liked about them and try wearing them with me. She wanted to make me happy and it's pretty harmless kink - I've since got her a pair of Adidas pants and we wear them together often and she finds this side of our sex life really fun. I will say, you will most likely feel embarrassed when you bring it up, but if your partner cares about you they should make you feel comfortable about your kink or, at the very least, about being open about your likes.

 

[Theo_Vilmos]

Hey, I agree with the comments above. In my experience trying to get your partner to wear something without fully explaining to them what's going on probably won't get the result you want. If you have a solid and trusting relationship with your partner, it's best just to be honest about your kink. I told my current partner about my kink for trackies and sportswear and she was great about it, she didn't judge me at all and was really interested to find out what I liked about them and try wearing them with me. She wanted to make me happy and it's pretty harmless kink - I've since got her a pair of Adidas pants and we wear them together often and she finds this side of our sex life really fun. I will say, you will most likely feel embarrassed when you bring it up, but if your partner cares about you they should make you feel comfortable about your kink or, at the very least, about being open about your likes.

This is lovely, I'm really pleased for you .

Great advice too.

 

[Theo_Vilmos]

Bottom line, OP:

People who love you are willing to do a lot for you, both sexually and in other ways. On the spectrum of fetishes and kinks, yours is extremely harmless and easy to satisfy. You've nothing to lose.